Yesterday, we celebrated our wedding anniversary. We have been together over 21 years.

Some of you already know about how we met. I have written several times. We met at a Japanese university. He came from America, but he is originally from Cuba (he was born and lived until 20).

My major at a Japanese university was Spanish. One day, he asked me to spend his birthday together. As friends, we went to the Port of Nagoya. To be honest, I was his ideal woman. I was not interested in him. I was very busy and didn’t plan to have a boyfriend.

A few months later, we became lovers and lived together. He has not changed since then.  He is still a serious person and hard worker.

When I was in Spain for study, he came and proposed. We got engaged in December of the same year. I was 22 and he was 28. After graduation, I worked in Japan. He changed jobs for a higher salary. A few years later, we got married, and our children were born in Florida.

I don’t know how to describe us: a Cuban husband, a Japanese wife, and American children. Maybe we are a multiracial and international family.

He likes natto (Japanese fermented soybeans). I can’t eat…😅

  • Tokyo in 2005

 

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11 responses to “How did you meet your significant other?”

  1. Z.F. Thrimej Avatar

    Happy recent anniversary to you both! 😀

    1. LILI FLORIDA Avatar

      Thank you!🙂

  2. ゆるふわ猫の日常語り手〜(新)窓辺の自然人〜 Avatar

    多民族国際の素敵なファミリーなんですね✨🫧

    1. LILI FLORIDA Avatar

      なんだか色々ミックスですが…仲は良い方かと…😅

  3. Vanya Wryter Consulting Avatar
    1. LILI FLORIDA Avatar

      Thank you! 😊

  4. Voice Of Rohingya | Anowar Sadak Avatar

    What a beautiful love story! ❤️ Over 21 years together, from university days in Japan to building an international family. Wishing you both many more happy years together!

    1. LILI FLORIDA Avatar

      We met in our 20s and are now in our 40s. Time flies…

  5. pedmar10 Avatar

    I met mine a glorious day of September 10 1990 in Paris an awesome life together until the lousy cancer took her away before reaching 60 in 2018. Memories forever, and plenty of rememberance in my blog. Thanks for the memories of always and best of luck to you and yours. Cheers

    1. LILI FLORIDA Avatar

      Oh…I am so sorry…🙏 Was yours an international marriage? 

      1. pedmar10 Avatar

        I convince her to come to Florida where our 3 boys were born and then she convince me to live in France.

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