What bores you?

02/22/2026

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Culture, Daily Writing Prompt, English, Family

I agree with other bloggers. What bores me is when I spend time with people who repeat the same story and are not interested in others.

I’m a Japanese woman. When I was single, I didn’t want to be around men (including male friends) who only bragged about themselves. They tended to be highly confident. Some women like confident men. But I preferred a man who was interested in me and could achieve goals together.

I spent a lot of time with my grandfather. One piece of advice he gave me was that people who waste food can’t respect others or themselves. They disrespect farmers and chefs. How do they respect themselves?

In 2009, Kenyan environmentalist Wangari Maathai introduced the Japanese word “mottainai” as a slogan for environmental protection at a session of the United Nations.

“Mottainai” means “don’t waste” or “what a waste” in English.

I think my grandfather’s advice was right.

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3 responses to “What bores you?”

vermavkv

02/23/2026

What a thoughtful and meaningful reflection this is. I truly appreciate how you’ve woven together personal experience, cultural wisdom, and a powerful life lesson so gracefully. Your perspective on valuing humility, genuine connection, and mutual growth in relationships is refreshing and deeply insightful.

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1. LILI FLORIDA
  
  02/23/2026
  
  Older people have more life experience and knowledge. I always respected my grandfather more than my mom. My dad was not a good advisor because he was very kind to me. I miss him… Last week, I talked to him by phone. He remembered me but couldn’t continue the conversation. I feel sad…😢
  
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  1. vermavkv
    
    02/23/2026
    
    I’m really sorry you’re going through this. It sounds like you share such a deep bond with your dad, and moments like that can stir a lot of emotions. The fact that he remembered you says so much about the connection you still have—it means you’re still there in his heart, even if words don’t always come easily now.
    
    It’s completely natural to feel sad when someone you love can’t communicate the way they used to. Just know that your presence, your voice, and your love still matter more than you may realize. Holding on to those memories and the kindness he showed you is something no distance or silence can take away. 🤍

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